Central Motivation ?'s

I am wrestling with these four questions surrounding what my central motivation is for leading our student ministry this up and coming school year.

1. How do I want to operate with others? (By myself? With others? As the boss? How?)
2. What do I want to work with? (Numbers? Things? People? Ideas? Words?)
3. What abilities recur? (Evaluation? Persuasion? Writing? Studying? Organization?)
4. What is the thing I seem to get out of the achievements? (Excelling? Building and developing? Acquiring things? Gaining a response?)